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Help! I might be a Hoarder!

August 30th, 2011

So I haven’t blogged for several weeks- I’ve been out of my routine! Lots has changed personally and professionally since the beginning of the month.

The biggest professional change this month is that Imagine Hope has moved locations! Our new space is amazing! It is like walking into a spa for your soul!

As I have been sorting through boxes with the move, I realized I have carried A LOT of professional “junk” from job to job since starting in this field 11 years ago. I have files I don’t look at, books I’ve never read, and handouts I’ve never actually handed out. Why? Why do I hang on to all of it and continue to carry it with me from place to place? Am I a Hoarder?

It reminds me of something we came across in my mom’s attic when we were helping her get ready to move (sorry if you are reading this mom :) ). She had boxes of National Geographic magazines going back for years- even from before I was born. Why? Why hold on to all of that stuff you know you will never use?

I think many people have a “just in case I need it” mentality. I know that is why I’ve carried all of my professional junk with me. But in reality- Do we ever really “NEED” it?

I challenge you to ask yourself this in all areas of your life. Work, home, clothes and shoes closets, junk drawers, basements, etc. Look around and see what you are carrying with you that is taking up space. Ask yourself why you hang onto it and what purpose it gives you by doing so.

The next step is to look at your emotional junk that needs purging. Are you hoarding resentments? Do you cling to old pain that you need to be free from? Are you having trouble forgiving someone for hurting you? Are you an eternal victim? If so, it is time to sort through it all and do some healing.

It feels so good to purge things physically and emotionally. Give yourself a gift and start cleaning house literally and emotionally. You owe it to yourself to release your excess baggage for good!

Written by Teri Claassen MSW, LCSW, LCAC

Teri Claassen MSW, LCSW, LCAC is a licensed therapist at Imagine Hope Counseling Group. Teri enjoys doing marriage counseling, individual counseling, couples and relationship counseling. Teri also does family counseling, child counseling, and adolescent counseling. Imagine Hope serves the Indianapolis area, including the surrounding areas of Carmel, Fishers, Noblesville, Zionsville, and Westfield.

Calling All Dad’s!

August 3rd, 2011

* This post was originally a guest blog post on www.mycyberguardian.com. This is a non-profit organization my husband and I started to help combat peer victimization among our youth. We address issues about bullying, cyberbullying, and teen dating violence while encouraging youth to be upstanding digital citizens using technology.
Check it out for more info!

Did you know the father role has a significant impact on whether or not your child may engage in bullying behavior? According to a study by Andre Christie-Mizell from Vanderbilt University, “it was when fathers worked full time or overtime and children perceived that they did not spend enough time with their fathers that bullying behavior increased.” In this study, a mother’s work schedule had no impact on whether or not a child bullied peers. Most assume and believe that a mother has the majority of the impact on a child, but this study proves differently.

So fathers- it’s time to invest in your children. Here are some easy suggestions:
• Spend more quality time with them
• Wrestle in a playful way
• Sit down and connect with your kids
• Ask them about their favorite part of their day and share
yours
• Have them teach you something new
• Start a new activity, sport, or hobby together
• Send them texts or call them throughout the day saying you
hope their day is going well
• Get to know them, what they like, think, and dream about
• Be their friend on facebook- you might see a whole new side
of them

Both parents’ roles are vital to a child having an emotionally healthy life, but fathers need to hear the call to action. They NEED you! I challenge you to slow your busy schedules and invest 15 minutes daily in your child’s life. It will make a difference!

Written by Teri Claassen MSW, LCSW, LCAC

Teri Claassen MSW, LCSW is a licensed therapist at Imagine Hope Counseling Group. Teri enjoys doing marriage counseling, individual counseling, couples and relationship counseling. Teri also does family counseling, child counseling, and adolescent counseling. Imagine Hope serves the Indianapolis area, including the surrounding areas of Carmel, Fishers, Noblesville, Zionsville, and Westfield.

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